When There's Nothing We Can Do
"Out of all that you possess, what do you
believe is the most valuable?" he asked me.
"Rich, you know me well enough to know
I put little value on things in my life. So,
this, for me, is a difficult question," I replied.
"It's not the same answer for everyone and yet,
most people put little, if any, value on this," he said.
Rich is a man with more energy than any one
person should have. When he is speaking with
you he talks to everyone around you. When he is
in a room everyone knows it. He is not boisterous,
rude or obnoxious. He is just super happy and
friendly with everyone he meets.
There are times when I see people and wish out
loud, "I want to be that happy." I'm not sure I'd
want to be as happy as Rich. He sometimes
exhausts me.
I thought about what he said for a few minutes
while he scanned the people nearby.
"Hey, this is Bobby Perks. He's a big time writer!"
he said to someone. I, in turn, wanted to hide.
"Well, I would guess I would say I value my home.
It's a simple one, big enough for Marianne and I,
but I would guess shelter would have to be at the
top of my list."
"Good answer. I knew you wouldn't say your car.
You don't drive a fancy one. You don't wear a
watch or fancy jewelry. You're right, stuff doesn't
matter to you."
"So, what's your answer?"
"Your words. Not because you are a writer and a
speaker. I believe that you own your words and
many people don't. You care about what you say."
He gives me more credit than I deserve for I have,
like some people, said things I regretted later.
I thought about "owning my words."
They say that actions speak louder than words,
but people tend to say things without really thinking.
Words build up or tear down.
Words inspire or insult.
The first words spoken have made lovers
out of strangers.
The last words whispered may ease a mourners pain.
Words spoken in anger are often forgiven, but rarely
forgotten.
"Just what I needed to hear!" means God spoke
through you.
You are what you say and how you say it.
Matthew 12:37 "For by your words you will be
justified, and by your words you will be condemned."
"You have it easily in your power to increase the sum
total of this world's happiness now. How? By giving a
few words of sincere appreciation to someone who is
lonely or discouraged. Perhaps you will forget tomorrow
the kind words you say today, but the recipient may
cherish them over a lifetime."
Dale Carnegie quotes (American lecturer, author, 1888-1955)
Sometimes words are all we have when there's nothing we can do.
"I wish you enough!"
J
~ Bob Perks ~
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[ by: Bob Perks
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